Offence is only taken when it affects your reality. If you throw a stone into a pack of dogs the one that yelps got hit. If someone calls me an (insert insult/blame here) I am by no means offended, as I have a very secure self worth. If I am living with ... Continue Reading
As if you owned it…
How would you walk into a place if you owned it? Now, how would you walk into your Purpose if you owned it? You do own it right? Man, stop apologising for your Purpose. Start celebrating your authentic self. Look at yourself in the mirror and take ... Continue Reading
Constant Absorption Principle
You are the average of the people you interact with most. Back in 2013 I asked my four closest mates what they were earning. I was within $50 of the average! I also happened to be the average of their health: one was super-man fit, another was fighting off ... Continue Reading
Creative Responsibility
We are creative beings. Our purpose is to create. If we are frustrated or unfulfilled it could be that we aren't creating anything considerable in our lives. Men are drawn to workshops/ kitchens/ laboratories/ gyms/ studios/ building projects like moths to a ... Continue Reading
To be, or not to be…
Rest into your self. Rest into God's love and goodness for you. Breathe in deep and settle into your self. You don't have to do what the world expects. We get so caught up chasing imaginary rules of acceptance, not success, but acceptance. What do I have to ... Continue Reading
A Subtle Switch
Our hearts are most satisfied by contribution, not consumption. We think it is consumption that will make us happy. Our culture ravenously consumes relationships and resources in a bid to fill the gaping hole of meaning inside of us. It is an empty promise ... Continue Reading
How I view myself
How do you view yourself? What comes to mind when you think about yourself? How do you describe yourself to yourself? The mind thinks in pictures, so what pictures have you collected that define you? Back in 2015 I hit a bit of an identity-crisis. Who am I? ... Continue Reading
Direct
You need a goal, not a girl. You will find your girl on the way to your goal. If I asked you what your goals were, could you answer me with clarity and enthusiasm? Have you spent time asking God what mission He has made you for? Have you written down your ... Continue Reading
“I did not know you.”
Implied are two things: 1) you can, and should, know God in this life. 2) just because something is good or expected doesn't mean that it is what God wants you to do with your life. The story of Martha and Mary: One bowed to the expected, the other bowed to ... Continue Reading
Fear.
"If a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn't fit to live." - Martin Luther King jr. What will you die for? Your job? Because that is whats happening. Every night you are one sleep closer to dying. Are you happy to die never having ... Continue Reading
Automation: Saintly or Sacrilegious?
The common world view is that a man must work his 40 hours per week and earn his honest wage. Doesn't the bible itself say that if a man does not work he shall not eat? The word we must investigate here is 'work.' We take it for granted that we must go to ... Continue Reading
What Is The Purpose Of Man
We are the object of God's love: Zep 3:17 The LORD your God is in your midst, he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing. Rom 5:5 because God's love has been poured into our hearts ... Continue Reading